New Song

Posted on 9:11 AM
If you're a faithful "What If" reader, and you've paid any attention what so ever, I shouldn't have to tell you that last fall held some difficult times for me. For no reason and many reasons, all jumbled together, I struggled with finding joy in my day to day life. I don't know if I should call it depression, which is not a term I throw around lightly. I don't use that term to mean "sad," it was more like: don't want to get out of bed, more bad days than good days for months on end, can't remember what it feels like to not feel like this. As a believer, I know that happiness may be circumstantial, but joy is not. So where was my joy? Try as I may, I just couldn't will myself out of the pit. And I tried hard to just ignore it because I had no good reason to feel so bad. And if you're a friend of mine and didn't know, don't worry about it, I'm just that good at faking it. It was months before I let David know.

I still don't have a firm grasp on what was going on with me for that 4 or 5 month period, but as one who over analyzes and "what ifs" and questions and second guesses everything...I have decided to just let go of "why" and praise God for His rescue. I say this because, I feel good again. I am sleeping well at night, and as I sit on the edge of the bed each morning, I realize I am more annoyed with my alarm clock than I am dreading the day ahead, which had become such a familiar burden. I am content in deep places, I am satisfied, I'm really okay. My good days far outnumber my bad; in fact, I don't remember my last "bad" day. Well, correction, I indeed remember my last bad day, but circumstances deemed it a bad day. It wasn't a bad-for-no-good-reason bad day,which is what I had become accustomed too. My laugh is back. In fact, I find myself laughing too much, as in laughing an inappropriate amount or at inappropriate times. I find myself laughing so hard and so often that I am slightly annoyed at the sound of my own laughter. If you have recently been in a social situation where you found my laughter to be a bit much, you'll have to forgive me, I'm making up for lost time. I often laugh out of the blue over something I heard a day or a week or a month ago. Fear of little people...seals...Japanese whaling...things that are NOT funny, but you'll find me laughing about them...I have my reasons :) I just can't describe how light my lightness feels following the tremendous weight.

Okay, I've gotten way off track. For a couple days now I've been asking why or how or when? What caused the shift, when did I make the turn, why am I feeling so much better? I don't have an answer but this morning, my devotional led me to Psalm 40 and I think I'm beginning to catch on:

2 He lifted me out of the slimy pit,
out of the mud and mire;
He set my feet on a rock
and gave me a firm place to stand.

3 He put a new song in my mouth...

So, here's where I am now: wallowing in great appreciation and awareness that He did a work in me, He did. I couldn't help myself. Try as I may, I could not will myself better. He picked me up, dusted me off and set me on solid ground. He put a new song in my mouth...which is a good thing because I couldn't even remember the words to my old song. For months I would say, God I can't remember what it feels like to just feel like me. But you know, I'm still not her. Follow me: my God is too good and loving a God to just pick me up and return me to where I was, instead He picked me up and moved me to a better place. Rather than reinstate me to my former self, which is all I asked for, He gave me a new song. Oh, that gets me.

So what's different now? Just me, nothing else. Almost everything that was a part of my life 6 months ago still is: same struggles, same relationships, same sameness. But I changed, He changed me.

Thursday Thoughts

Posted on 12:44 PM
  1. What a bummer that I left last night's yummy leftovers on the counter.
  2. If I had a gun in my vehicle during carpool line I would shoot all the cheaters, I feel that angry about it. I would possibly spare the children in the vehicle, but you know, cheaters usually spawn cheaters, so I'm not so sure.
  3. I may regret buying the off brand dishwashing liquid.
  4. Luke just tried to sneak up on me; he couldn't sneak up on a glass of water, poor fellow.
  5. It's really cold today, at least it was this morning, brrrr.
  6. It took Andy longer to get over Luke's fall than it did Luke, that's friendship (or a guilty conscience) but I choose to believe the first.
  7. I smell the roast in the crock pot. Yum.
  8. Yesterday was Kyle's 20th birthday. Wow. He's really a grown up. Sniff, sniff. Time flies.
  9. Rats, I didn't get Kyle a card in the mail, I have been so BAD at that since our move. I am way behind, I still have January birthdays to acknowledge.
  10. I registered Luke for kindergarten yesterday. Big sigh. One day I'll wake up and he'll be 20.

Have you ever...

Posted on 3:12 PM
...watched someone go through something extremely difficult, and the integrity and humility with which they conducted themselves was so God-honoring that you were left painfully humbled by an awareness of your own selfishness and pride?

I have.

Well done, Run.

Long Day

Posted on 9:47 PM
I started my day at 5-ish.

All the events of my day stacked up back to back, several overlapped.

Twelve different children have been in my home (not all of them at one time).

I sat through a difficult, challenging team meeting and have many things to process.

I ate dinner at a restaurant with six children (and it actually went pretty well!)

David and I made a tough decision about an area of leadership and I thought I'd feel relieved for the closure, but not so much.

I have quite a headache.

I am so ready for bed.

Getaway?

Posted on 5:48 PM
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David and I celebrate our 10th anniversary in May (the 16th, Teri's 10th too!). Anniversaries are a big deal to me, because, well, my marriage is a big deal to me. Celebrating it is special and that can mean a nice dinner out or a night away, each year looks different and that's fine with me. Two years ago, all four of us went to our favorite casual pizza joint and I was as content as I could be...year 8, our first in NC, felt like a celebration of our family. But this year, not so much :)...we are itching to getaway together, just the two of us. Doesn't have to be far away, just away. Away from our to-do lists, away from our distractions and responsibilities, away from this computer. I'm sad to say that I rarely give David my undivided attention, there's always something looming in the background of our time together. I feel like this past year I've given a lot of my time and attention to the needs of others, and David has often taken the backseat. David and I both prioritize serving others, our church and our community, but it's time to scale back, at least for a couple days, and just be together, no distractions. This "itch" to get away happens to come at a great time. My parents are coming into town in a month and my mom will be staying with us for a few weeks. She has offered and really insisted that we make the most of her time here and take a little time to ourselves. We are happy to oblige, thanks Mom. We are wanting to plan an little early anniversary getaway, maybe just one night, maybe two if I can convince David to take a day off.

So here's the point of this post: in the past few days, I have spent hours on the internet looking for a great getaway spot somewhat nearby. Because I've done so much back and forth to Florida in the past 2 years, I really don't want to spend much time in the car driving to our "destination." It's not that I'm having trouble finding a spot, the problem is I'm finding too many great spots, it's hard to choose and it's hard to know if what I'm seeing online is really as good as it looks in the pictures. The Carolinas are full of beautiful places from beaches to mountains. I have two main parameters: I don't want to drive more than 3 hours and I can't spend a fortune (or even a small fortune). So c'mon NC natives and travelers, what's THE BEST little getaway (reasonably priced!)?? I know some of you have got to be "in the know" about the best kept secrets in the Carolinas. A great little place in Asheville? Boone? Maybe Charleston (that's about as far as I'll go!)? I really want to know...and soon! Comment, email me, help me out...

Labor of Love

Posted on 4:37 PM
I just reviewed my last post and it made me laugh. If I thought 3 1/2 hours of priming furniture on Thursday led to messy trouble, I just had no idea what I was in store for on Friday! Hmmmm...eleven hours...white primer traded in for colors like Azalea, Sour Apple, Calypso Blue and Harlequin...it's on my steering wheel!?...Luke is down one pair of shoes (lost in a sea off spilled Calypso)...primer spill in the back of the Explorer...sore arms and legs...goodbye Crocs...what a day! But it was a labor of love. Today, I was the large group teacher in Quest which is rare, but I now know it was a God-thing, not just a last-minute-fill-in thing. I had the pleasure of interacting with all my "characters," Casey the Closet, Grover the Game Box, and so on...the anticipation I felt as I awaited the arrival of our little ones and the excitement as the kids walked in and met eyes (yes, the furniture has eyes too!) with the set was so worth the hours. I needed to spend a day reveling in the end result of the hard work. I'd do it all again in a heartbeat, but I hope I never have too!

BIG thanks to Kelly who spent 8 hours of her day off with me, and to Lindsey and Sarah for helping me close out the long day. By hour 9, I don't even think I was friendly anymore. And what can I say to Chris and his crew at Innovative Installations, Inc.? Not only did they build our great pieces, they also let me invade their space for almost 15 hours total and were so helpful and gracious, even about the Calypso Blue!

Now for a complete topic change, let me tell you more about David's Dr's office swap (two posts ago). The urgent care office sent him a personal, hand written thank you note. Seriously. They thanked him for giving his spot to the child and expressed sincere thanks on behalf of the mother and staff. Is that great or what?

The Problem With Painting

Posted on 2:55 PM
I did a little painting today. I like to paint. Notice, I said like. What keeps me from loving to paint is the fact that I'm so bad at it. The finished product looks fine but the process is hardly worth it. First, I have a little ADD issue so by the time I prepare the area, gather the materials, pour the paint, and make my first few strokes, I'm over it. Done. Ready to move on. Now, because I have a strong work ethic and enough self control, I'm able to stick with it until the job is done (or in today's case, until the preschooler needs to be picked up). The bigger problem is the mess I make. You know those people who can paint an entire room or piece of furniture and not get a drop on them (I'm thinking of Amy C right about now)...I am NOT one of those people. After a half hour of painting, I appear as if I've wrestled a paint monster...and lost. Now imagine how I look after I've been at it for hours. Paint in the hair, on the face, covering the hands, smeared on the clothes and dripped on my shoes. Today I had the pleasure of doing this in front of a half dozen men who had to be getting a kick out of my harder-than-it-should-be paint experience. I can only imagine how hard they laughed when I was out of earshot! Regardless of their inevitable laugther, let me say thanks to Chris for making our fun and functional Quest furniture and Cody for setting me up for as successful a painting experience as a mess like me can hope for!

I'll be back at it tomorrow, wish me luck!

What a guy!

Posted on 12:06 PM
First, I feel the need to apologize to all of you who are sick of hearing me *gush* about my husband, but then I think, whatthecrapever (as Mindy would say). Seriously, if you're tired of hearing how fab I think my David is, you'll have to find another blog because I hope I never stop having reasons to show him bloggy-lovin.' So you can find another blog, but don't find another blog right now...read this, really, what a guy!

Here's the set up: David has been sick for about two weeks with "the crud." He's been pretty miserable and believe me when I say, he is no fun to be around when he's sick...and since we've lived in NC, he seems to get sick often. Usually in the evenings, he's feeling his worst, just when I'm about to pull my hair out. He finally decided yesterday that it was time to see a doctor so after putting in nearly a full work day, he made a trip to our local urgent care. We have a clinic within walking distance that I pass multiple times a day and I can tell you that between this particular crud and the flu, the office is PACKED, all day everyday. After waiting just over an hour, David was finally called back. But as he went to the back and began his process of checking vitals and giving info, he couldn't stop thinking about that mother and child waiting in the lobby. You see, just before he'd gone back, a woman with a sick child had come into the office. David said the little boy was pretty out of it at first but then began to hold his ear and cry in pain. So as David finally began his process to see the doctor , he stopped the nurse and asked if he could go back out into the waiting room and let the mother and child take his place. After repeatedly asking David if he was sure and then going and discussing it with the mother, the swap was made. David returned to the waiting room and the child was seen in his place. And he didn't get the next spot in line, he got the child's spot, 5-6 people later. So after another 45 minutes or so, he finally saw the doctor. In the meantime, he said the entire waiting room knew what he'd done and were very appreciative. I'm sure they were glad to have the crying child out of there! Of course the mother thanked him repeatedly as well.

David and I have been married nearly 10 years, together for a dozen. I love moments like this that take me by surprise. I know he's a good great man, but honestly, I don't know many people that would've done the same, myself included. Afterall, he was sick too, he'd worked all day, he felt miserable, surely it was only fair that he see the doctor first. That's life right? Maybe this isn't rescuing kittens from a burning building or pushing an old lady from the path of oncoming traffic, but he's a hero none the less. Take it from this mom of two little ones who has waited in my fair share of urgent care and ER waiting rooms...no one has ever given my child their spot in line, ever.

Maybe I'm getting a little too carried away, but I can't help but think of that commericial where the woman pulls someone from the curb just before a bus speeds by and someone who sees the act in turn performs a caring deed and so on and so on...who knows what chain reaction of selflessness started at David's deed. My sincerest hope is that one of those waiting room witnesses later saw David get in his car, noticed the Elevation Church sticker, connected David to the church, the church to Jesus and therefore, Christ received the glory. But no matter what the "big picture" is, I'm lucky to have that kind of man as my hubby and Luke and Lily are lucky to have that kind of daddy.

Birthday Tribute

Posted on 2:21 PM
Today is Pastor's 28th birthday. Yes, I said 28. No, I don't mean my youth pastor. I know he is far too busy to be surfing blogs reading birthday tributes, so this post really isn't for him, it's for all of you. I want you to know why he's so special to our family, and if my family is special to you, I want Pastor Furtick to be special to you as well. I want you to pray for guidance and protection for him and his young family. I want you to pray a prayer of thanksgiving for bringing him into our lives.

This post could have the potential to be very long, so to combat that, I'm going to attempt to keep it short, even at the risk of under-explaining. Personally, as an Elevation attendee and Christ follower, I can honestly say that every time I sit under Pastor's teaching and preaching, I am challenged and inspired. Every time, every week, and in between when I revisit sermons on my iPod, I find myself wanting more. That's one reason I am certain of his true annointing, because I am a hyper personality that truly struggles to focus. That fact that his 50 minute sermons leave me wanting more only prove that I hear from God when I hear from Pastor.

Now, as David's wife (which is how many people at Elevation know me), I get a little more emotional when I think of Pastor Furtick. Moving here was scary but there were very specific promises God made me as a wife and mother, one concerning my children that I would have to accept on faith and one I would see with my own eyes. The latter was a promise for my husband. Now this is where I could let my words get away from me. I could probably write volumes on the subject of my husband and the spiritual gifts I have watched surface under Pastor's leadership. ......Ahhhh, I have typed and erased 10 sentences. I just don't know how to adequately express my heart on the matter, so rather than attempt to describe the many ways I see God working in my husband's life, I'll just say I'm thankful to my pastor for being God's catalyst. I know that David genuinely loves Pastor, and that in itself is a blessing. It is David's honor to humbly serve him for all the right reasons, and I so enjoy watching David use his gifts for God. His service to Pastor has lead to areas of blessing that every wife hopes to see for her husband, and I couldn't ask for a better leader to lead my husband who in turn leads our family.

So today, February 19th, I am reminded how very thankful I am that God ordained the life of Pastor Steven Furtick to collide with mine.

Warning: Short Fuse

Posted on 9:01 PM
I've had a short fuse today. Not sure why, not a bad day...actually a beautiful, made for a trip to the playground kind of day. Regardless of how lovely the weather or even how wonderful it was to not wake up to an alarm clock, for some reason, I was just an outburst waiting to happen. And happen it did.

Word to the wise, you never know when my fuse is short, so I would not advise laughing at my 4 year old when he trips in Walmart as his short legs move faster than his body in an anxious attempt to rush to the toy section to spend his Valentine money from Pa & Grandma, and then stumbles down to his knees. I would not laugh if I were you, I wouldn't even chance a smirk. You will leave headless...I.Will.Bite.It.Off. Teenage boys beware, the cruel laughter that may go unpunished in the highschool locker room or cafeteria will be brought to light and scolded harshly (and loudly). Your attempts to demean another human being will lead to your own demise. You will leave red faced, you will duck down the nearest aisle for safety from the stares of others as you find yourself on the losing end of a short-fused mama. My precious son is not one of your loser friends that you can rip on. My son is kind and compassionate and will not be like you. He will help a fallen child, or anyone else for that matter, not cover his face in obvious laughter with that look of smug superiority on his face. His sweet, humble, daddy-looking face won't even own that look.

My fuse is short today because on a good day, I would have considered my outburst in advance and realized that Luke didn't notice the laughter, at least not until his mama shamed some stranger in the middle of the store. I would have realized that him not knowing was worth more than my tantrum. But I've surely made progress in my journey to be more Christ like, because I think I could have punched that kid...but I didn't, so there's a fruit of the spirit, right? Longsuffering is surely a way of saying hesitant to punch someone's lights out?

If I had it to do all over again, I'm not sure if I'd have wasted my breath (and it does take more breath to yell!) on that mean kid. Sadly, because of my brief but lively reprimand Luke may have been more embarrassed. I'm not sure. He seemed unaffected by it all, and Lily seemed very entertained. I hope they at least know their mama thinks they are worth fighting for.

Well Done, D

Posted on 8:35 PM

A vacuum. As my 9 year old neighbor said, A vacuum? That's not romantic. I guess it's all in how you look at it. To me, my new lightweight Bissell says he's listening. He's paying attention to the things I do and say because lugging my old, heavy vacuum up the stairs had become such a thorn in my side. So I got a new vacuum for Valentine's Day, and I feel very loved. (Mine is blue by the way).


Happy Valentine's Day.

Beach Blood

Posted on 9:06 PM

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I was just catching up on Kelly's blog, she has post or two about her recent trip to the beach. To some, a beach trip in February may sound odd, but not to me. To me it sounds like heaven. As I read the post, I actually felt my scalp tense and small lump form in my throat, as if I could cry. I don't think I even realized I loved, and missed, the beach quite so much. A trip to the beach is like entering a parallel universe: I'm still me, the world is still turning, but everything feels different. Each day, time seems to pass slowly (measured only by mealtime and naptime), but in the end, the trip is over all too quickly. I love the smell of the beach...a little salty, a little fishy. I love that moment in the drive where you realize you're close enough to breathe in that beachy air so you roll all the windows down (even if it's cold outside). I rarely wear make up at the beach, I like dirty hair at the beach, I love the way a hot shower and clean hair feel after a day on the beach. I love sand. Sure it drives me bananas in the moment but it's the signature of the beach. Unexplainable sand, How'd sand get in here? sand. I love the way a walk on the beach feels like such hard work as you navigate in the wet sand yet the walk can go on for miles before you tire of the experience. Then you realize you have to turn around and walk back! I think the beach is just in my blood. I grew up just over an hour from some of the most beautiful beaches, the gulf beaches. I was born in a beach-area hospital, maybe babies born where their first breath is of salty air just crave the beach in a different way. I'm not fisherman, not a boater, not a water sport fanatic. All those things are fine and good but to me, a beach is a beach, no additives needed.

Beach memories. Day trips as a kid. Aunt Terry loved the beach, she'd pull her low beach chair just into the surf. Surely her heavenly mansion is a beach house. Trips with Amy and her family, her dad fully dressed under an umbrella. Senior year spring break at Mamoo's house. David's marriage proposal at sunset (then he refused to let me wear my diamond until the sand was washed from my hands). Newly pregnant and nauseous at the beach. Lily's first vacation at 4 months old was to the beach; newly pregnant again, but didn't know it yet :)! Sitting on the deck with Sheryl and Mema watching the dolphins in the surf, too many to count, and wouldn't you know, every child in the house was napping! So we enjoyed them by ourselves, dolphin watching never gets old.

Just last year we took our first non-Florida beach vacation and I must say, NC did not disappoint. Sunset Beach proved to be "different" but equally satisfying to a beach starved soul. The waves were rougher, swimming felt more like an athletic sport than a casual dip, but the feeling, it was the same. Maybe even better because of what a NC beach vacation represented to our little family...that there was life, and beach, outside of Florida.

So here it is Februay, and all I can think of is the beach. (Thanks a lot, Kel) A warm, sunny day on the beach would be ideal, but honestly, I'd take it anyway I could get it right now. Anyone up for a little road trip? Sweaters instead of swimsuits, but the sand and waves are just the same.

Kids R Funny

Posted on 2:41 PM
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Conversation between Lily & Matthew (our 6 year old neighbor):

Lily: (with great frustration) My bike helmet broke, now I can't ride my bike!

Matthew: You can ride a bike without a helmet, you just can't fall.

Blog Blahs

Posted on 10:48 AM
Two issues with my blog are causing me "stress" but I guess if that's my biggest stresser today, we're doing alright!

  1. My spellcheck feature isn't working (anyone else having that trouble with Blogger?) Just know that until the issue is resolved, you may notice an increase in misspellings. I don't even know how to spell misspellings...ahhhh, I don't need this pressure!
  2. My music is set to "autoplay" but will not autoplay, you have to click the play button...can't figure out what I'm doing wrong!


Hannah Rocks!

Posted on 1:55 PM
Rewind to last fall: Lily, Luke and I were hanging out at Elijah B's house while his mommy took Graham to an appointment. The TV was on the Disney channel and Miley Cyrus announced her BIG upcoming 3D concert movie. The moment is ingrained in my brain because I looked across the room to catch Lily's gaze, expecting: Can we go? Can we? Can we? but her actual response was...Oooh, that's a nice TV. Regardless, the same ad played for weeks upon weeks and although I thought it'd be fun, February seemed forever away.

Fastforward to Christmas: Lily opened a Hannah Montana doll that included a "backstage pass" accessory. Just a toy thingy, with a place to write your name, a fun little addition to imaginative play, but Lily didn't know that. She came to me with huge, excited eyes yelling, My ticket! My ticket! I get to go to the show! Two thoughts crossed my mind: tell her the truth, that the pass is just a toy OR agree, buy her a real ticket and she'll be none the wiser. I went with a third option, and explained that although the pass was just a little extra something with the doll, we were indeed going to the show...and in that moment I decided hell or high water, I was taking my baby girl to that movie. If you'd seen the look on her face when I told her the pass wasn't a movie ticket, the try-to-hide-the-disappointment mixed with her slight embarrassment for getting so excited, you'd have made the same commitment. The next day I was online checking into tickets, but again, even in December, February felt so far.

Now fastfoward to a couple weeks ago: One night I was on the phone chatting with Gina about who knows what (I'd guess Quest, our cute hubbies or what we'd do with unlimited cash resources) and the local news ran a segment about HM movie tickets being almost sold out! AHHHHH! Right then I jumped up, ran to my computer and secured 3 tickets to a Wednesday afternoon show. And honestly, I was pretty excited myself!


Next day: I had a happy little email in my inbox from Gina saying she and Abbey were going to join us...fun!

A week or so later: As Orange Tour approached, I told the kids about the tickets as a guilt offering. Mommy will be out of the house for the better part of 2 days, but guess where we're going next week?
That brings me to yesterday, the BIG day! We checked Lily out of school a few minutes early, her office staff was so sweet to the loser mom signing her kid out for a movie...they acted genuinely excited for us! With a purse full of Walmart candy and 3 very excited kids, Gina and I found our place in line...an hour early. We passed the time by taking pics as if we'd never been to the movin'-picture-show and quizzed each other: What's your favorite Hannah song? Later with tub o'normous popcorn and diet sodas (what else do you wash candy and popcorn down with?) we found our "concert" seats. Great seats, great kids, great junk food. It was everything a movie experience should be. I could have done without the 3D, gave me a bit of a headache, but the huge grin Lily flashed me every time our eyes met was so worth it all! Luke seemed less impressed (and was in the minority being male), but I know he had a good time. He's a Hannah fan, too. And he took his 3D glasses to show and tell today (as you can see by the pics, we were all about the glasses!)

On the drive home we played "Favorite/Least Favorite concert outfit" and I'm proud to say that the outfit that Gina and I disliked the most was Lily's favorite, and she didn't change her answer to suit us. What my girl lacks in fashion sense, she makes up for in being her own woman. I like that about her. And Luke? He didn't like or dislike anything, he's a lot like his daddy in that regard. He's just Luke, as in Luke-warm.

Yahoo for Yellow!

Posted on 9:28 PM
I carried Luke for 9 months...in a womb that had been vacated only 3 months prior to his conception. A tired womb you could say. His labor and delivery was excruciating, short (just 2 hours start to finish) but excruciating...and my drug free body felt every second of it. I sat by his hospital bedside for days when he was 3 weeks old with RSV. I nursed him for 12 months. I've lost the sleep, cleaned the puke, wiped the butt and nose...but one look at that boy and you know he's David's. The red hair, the blue eyes, the fair skin dotted with freckles. The soft spoken word, the silent observation, the love of physical comedy and extreme sports television. His "no hurry" approach to every task, the way he walks, the way he holds his head. Even their little tushies look alike. Strangers stop us to remark on the resemblance. Friends and family have said it since day one. But no one has EVER commented on anything about that child that relates him to me. EVER.

Today as Luke's teacher approached my window during carpool pick up, I could tell she needed to talk. Luke got "yellow" today. Yellow isn't bad (that'd be red), but yellow isn't good. Luke gets "green" everyday. Not today. Today was a yellow day. Luke was too chatty. Too chatty? Too. Chatty. Luke? My Luke?

I couldn't help but laugh out loud a little. Probably not the response the teacher was hoping for. But come on, too chatty? I love it. Love it. Inappropriate amounts of talking? Talking too much? He is mine. It's about darn time.

4000

Posted on 3:26 PM
Elevation had over 4000 in attendance yesterday. This man gave his remarkable testimony of redemption and God's all-surpassing grace, and 50 people gave their lives to Christ. This coming Sunday is our 2nd anniversary. We'll celebrate the day with baptisms and a rockin' concert.

I was kind of laid off today (that's not really the proper term in my position, but I had a job to go to one minute and not the next so I'm not sure what else to call it), but honestly, after a day like yesterday that follows a day like Friday and Saturday, days full of power and purpose, it'd take more than that to bring me down.



"Orange" You Glad?

Posted on 9:10 PM
Orange Tour Recap
Day 1:
Gina G$ and I arrive late to find all of the candy orange slices missing, hmmm. A mystery indeed.

Late arrivers have to sit with the boss and behave (kind of).

Bit O' Honey from heaven? Bit O' Honey on yo' fanny.

Great session by Reggie, get ready to go "orange" Elevation (thought you were already, huh?)

Fun dinner! (Kudos to whoever made those arrangements, I've never been in and out of a restaurant with 20 people in such a timely fashion). But what was that on young Keanu's finger?

How many widowers can one JW marry?

Brief-debrief was inspiring, way to to close out the night PMC. (By the way, when you commented on how you knew we'd struggle to sleep I thought to myself, Whatever buddy, you don't know what my Thursday night was like (sick child), sleep will come easily tonight. I was wrong, you were right. Don't let it go to your head).

Day 2:
Cool shirts, but hoodies woulda been great in that meatlocker. Hmmmm.

Late again, crap. Dark Magic is worth it (and we weren't late, we were just in time).

Great interactive "concentrate."Bit O' Honey been lookin' all over town for Teri.

Gotta love box o'chicken and play-doh charades.

Sorry to see the day end, Reggie really brought it home with that closing. Brought it home, as in my home, nailed it for me.


Okay, so that's a lighter-side recap. I couldn't begin to unpack what's still rumbling in my brain, the weight of our my responsibility to be Christ to today's family. Not to entertain, not to offer an "insurance" policy or free childcare. To enable, to equip...to arm. What does that look like? What's my role? Wow. So today I'll just relive the silliness. And may I say, yet again, that I could not handpick a better group of men and women to serve with, really. To be able to laugh and cry and dream with you all. What an honor. And what fun!



Missed you Brandi!


Love that guy

Posted on 8:36 AM
David has been busting his hump at work this week (every week for that matter). He started a new position and he's pulling double duty until his old position is adequately covered. It was no surprise when he called me at 5:20 yesterday to say he wasn't quite ready to call it a day (and he'd been there since 6am). And it was really no surprise when he called an hour later to say he'd tied up his loose ends but the warehouse guys were swamped and he wanted to stick around and help them. He's just that kind of guy.

Today, I'll be at Orange Tour long before he gets off work and possibly home after he heads to bed (that could be a statement on me being out late or him going to bed early, it could go either way!) Tomorrow I'll head out for Day 2 of OT and be gone most of the day. He'll pull dad-duty from the time he gets off today until late tomorrow afternoon and he won't complain. Not only will he not complain, he won't use guilt or pity tactics to passive-aggressively let me know he's not happy that I'm out of the house. I'll really miss him (already do) and he'll miss me but that's just because we genuinely enjoy one another's company, best friends no doubt, and we know weekends like this are NOT our norm.

Just wanted to take a second to let him know I'm thinking about him this morning, and always.

And David, I know you're crazy-busy, but I think you should take a second to find a calendar (do you even have a calendar at work?) and cirlce May 16. I don't know how or what, but let's say we'll do SOMETHING to celebrate 10 years married, and if you plan to be out a day in May, you probably need to prepare everyone at work now. Love ya.